Don't Depend On Others To Give You Praise

Since childhood, we've been in a habit of receiving compliments and praise from others. If we did well in school, our teacher use to applaud us in front of the whole class, sometimes we were awarded by awards also. In an organization, big praises are awarded in the form of promotion or increments and till now we have received so many praises. 

Who doesn't love to be praised? Every one of us feels good when someone praises us and its a positive sign we receive for our behavior and it gives us a sense of acceptance.

Think of a situation when you won't get praise for your recognition you deserve? You won't get any appreciation for the good work you have done either for society or for yourself? What if students were not ranked in their class for their hard work and what if in companies everyone whether hardworking or not were at the same level? Would that have changed your vision towards your goal?

IS PRAISE REALLY NECESSARY?

Although it's not necessary, its just a small gesture we receive from someone else when we do a good deed. Praise helps us to keep ourselves motivated to work more. This helps the person to know when and which work is appreciated. Praise creates a positive environment that encourages positive communication and interaction.

As we become older these praises become non-existent in our life. Though everyone will notice only a few will say that verbally. Everyone becomes so much busy in their life that sometimes we forget to speak on other's values. 

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN NO ONE PRAISES YOU

Why expect someone for praise? When no one praises for something good you have done don't get disappointed or act angrily instead you just praise yourself. 'No praise is bigger than SELF-PRAISE.'

If you will depend on others to praise you or encourage you then it might have a negative impact on you. Like if you didn't receive any praise or appreciation then you might doubt your own work and in the future, you might even not work to achieve high. And this usually happens with all of us. We have a mindset that if we are doing good then someone should appreciate us and if they don't we think why to do work when no one appreciates. Right?

You should not stop from being best just because no one praised you.

PRAISE YOURSELF

There will be many moments when no one would praise you but it's your job to continue with your progress. Always give your best don't stop because you don't know who is watching your work and efforts. One day someone might give you an opportunity that may advance you to another level. 

Don't wait for someone to praise you instead take a lead and start praising yourself for the hard work you have done and your efforts. Why wait for someone to compliment us. 

Having self-confidence in yourself is much better. Approve yourself and don't wait for someone else approval.  

Self-confidence is just walking in your own courage and determination without paying heed to someone else approval. The foundation of self-esteem is self-confidence. Praises are just for kids, for adults, it's our responsibility to find our own certainty.

Always stand in your strength and continue to make higher progress, even when no one is praising you. 

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