Be happy to be alone and not be lonely

COVID-19 has developed everyone in some of the other perspectives. Being in this pandemic situation, let's discuss how one can be happy by being lonely. In this era of social distancing, people have changed their interaction, working, living, communicating habits with people.

Everyone is working from home in a total isolation state but they are still happy by being lonely because they are doing their respective jobs along with their families. As the size of our fingers are not the same, in the same way, everyone cannot be happy in this stressful situation when one needs to do social distancing.

Some people love to be happy when they are all alone this is their emotional situation. By being, alone you can be happier than you are with people because there is no negativity crossing your mind. You just have to spend your quality time with none other but yourself.

It all depends on the perspective of our minds. The way we will think, the brain will develop the same situations, environment, thoughts, etc. in our life. The brain changes every small thing. It is capable of handling all those situations in the best possible way that we have never thought of.

There are many situations in our life when our brain is stuck in loneliness. Every thought becomes negative at that particular point in time. And then we start thinking about why the hell we are feeling alone? It's simply because at that time no one is there with you and you are actually stuck in loneliness loop. And you cherish all those moments, memories in your life that you had to spend with your loved ones.

Once you will learn how to be happy with your company itself at that very moment you will find the joy of your life. And I don't think that being lonely will make you depressed.

Once you will have that capacity to assimilate that you have to survive in this world all alone then no thought can make your mind gathered with the negative thoughts. Being in solitude can turn into a positive experience of your life. This is because you will be focusing on none other but yourself and that will be the time you will consider yourself at the priority.

If you will change the way of looking at things, the things will automatically change you look at. "You can't be lonely until you love someone who is alone."

To be happy by being alone but not lonely, the only step is to "Develop a Relationship with Yourself". To be happy by being alone one needs to accept and embrace the fact that he is all alone in his journey of life. The most fruitful and most important relationship you should have in your life is the relationship with yourself. When you will be in a state of aloneness then you will definitely make an effort to know about yourself. You will look at your strengths and weaknesses and you will surely be going to work upon it which will make you more confident in your life once you will make yourself your first priority.

Ask yourself: What do I really value in my life? What should I need as my priority? Whats should be my next task? These questions will make you know better about yourself and this will clarify what's important for your subsequent life.

You should keep your soul (mind and brain) in extraordinary shape. When your body will be calm then only you would be able to keep your brain calm. Keep your feelings in control to help organize your thoughts.

You just have to mug up one thing: instead of running away from the difficult situations chase them, once you will start chasing them they will become comfortable with you and stop irritating you. In this awkward and odd situation in your life let your dreams run free without any restrictions of thoughts.

Make yourself busy, it may be learning new recipes, planting trees, reading your favorite novel or book, painting, learning a new language, work on your vocabulary, reading journals, etc. there is so much to make your mind healthy and away from negativity, it's just you have to grab and utilize the opportunity and quality time on yourself. Always list the things you are grateful for even in your tough times. This will help in keeping you positive.

So being alone doesn't always mean depression this can be a sign of growth also. Make a proper routine for yourself you enjoy. You will be alone many times but you will never be lonely because you have social connections so connect with your family and your loved ones through that, find a hobby that will bring the best out of you.

Staying virtually connected is more beneficial for mental, emotional, social health and this is the consistent effort you are making yourself happy by being alone but not lonely.

Make a habit in your life that you have to make 5 people smile in your whole day this will bring happiness in your life as well in the one whom you made smile.

So being alone is different from lonely so don't mix them up. You will never feel lonely. So bring positivity in every situation. Negativity ruins the situation and pressures our minds. So, let's be grateful for all the things we have. Many of them don't even have that what we have.

"HAR DIN ESE JEEYO JAISE KI AAKHRI HO"

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