You would Never Change anything Until you get pissed

Every year we make resolutions, promises to change and this happens like every clockwork. Every year we think we will keep it for a year but what happens? All the resolutions are broken within a couple of days it's just because it's quite difficult to make those changes. No worries. You don't need to be ashamed of its majority sales in the same boat. So why does this happens? Let's find out the reason for this 'why'.

TROUBLE
     Most of us, including me have so many complications in life and making a change will add more to it. The problem is we don't want to do it and then we start blaming everyone else around us. We are not ready to change.

Why you have to deal with your rude boss? when you can change your job and get a better one. Why you cant quit out of your marriage if you are not happy? Why you can't keep yourself away from negative peeps?

Are we not allowed to be happy? Is it not worth gaining back your confidence and happiness?

GOING THROUGH THE MOTIONS
     Every person wants to change something in their whole lifespan. It might be a job, relationship, habit, quit a particular food, and there are so many items. So, if they really want to change then why don't they step ahead and change it? Will someone will stop? Nobody will stop except you-yourself will stop. People are happy living with trouble and following their daily routines even when they don't want that routine in their life.

I have seen people daily talking a lot about motivation, listening to 'n' number of motivational speakers, seeking guidance from everywhere like a beggar asking for a penny. There will be no miracle or there will be no magic that anyone will do and your trouble will be gone. You have to change it.

RETURN POINT
     A situation comes in everybody's life when either you change your decision and live happily or live with that boring daily routine. It all depends on your behavior towards your life. This is called self-assertion point that things will start changing from now when you will take a stand for yourself and step forward to implement that change surely no force can stop you but this will only happen when everything hits high and you are actually pissed off from everything happening every second longer.

HITTING INSIDE
     When something is constantly hitting/snapping you inside whether a particular behavior or circumstances one day you will end up saying 'I Had Enough, Not More Of It'. This day will be the day when everything will change forever. Something hits you hard and your makeover is done deeply and the result is you turn into a confident, self-assured human being.

There were many situations in my life when I was unhappy and that changed only when I had enough of the situations. The last time this happened to me was when I was in my high-school and interviews were going on for the selection of the school cabinet. I and one of my playfellow were in the competition. There was a voting system for the final selection, I received high votes from my competitor still because my playfellow was favorite of the class-teacher, she chose her instead of me.

This pissed off me so much that this turned me into a brilliant student and I decided to score high marks then the competitor and that only happened. That happened because I became so aggressive and decided to work hard knowing that I would not be stopped in my endeavor.

ANGER
     Many of us think anger turns into violence and negative emotion but this is not true. Everyone fears the person who shows anger. But anger can be positive too. You never know what miracles you can do when you are angry, the best can come out of you when your mind is at high temperature. Anger can stimulate action, initiate change and motivate people to act.

Anger is a powerful emotion that can motivate people to change. This had happened with me, whenever I used to skip my daily self-study the next another day my teacher used to question me and one day she scolded me very badly and for the very first time I got a scolding from my teacher that too in front of the whole class this instant made me so embarrassed and angry that I never skipped my self-study especially for that subject. So anger changes people in a positive way also.

The only way to change your life is to get pissed off and move that you don't have to take any crap from the person, whether it may be a relation, boss or anything.

So go ahead, get mad at things which pisses you off and let the emotion catapult you into a different, stronger, confident person.

"Treat yourself the way you want to get treated by the world."

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